When I think of Dr. Martha, it’s not the big events or official meetings that come to mind first- it’s the small, thoughtful things she did. The quiet gestures that spoke more than words ever could.
Every year on her birthday and during Diwali, Dr. Martha would prepare besan and atta ladoos at home. She was very particular about the way they were made. She never believed in ordering sweets from outside; for her, making them by hand was a way of sharing love.
When I was new to PRIA, still trying to understand the people, the work, and the culture of the organisation, she did something that left a deep impression on me. Her birthday was coming, and she came to me and asked gently, “What would you prefer- Atta or Besan ladoos?” It was such a simple question, but it made me feel seen. I wasn’t just a new employee in the background; she made me feel like I mattered. That one small gesture gave such a personal touch to her personality and to the way she connected with people.
Another memory I cherish is from 15th August, Independence Day. I had been at PRIA for only nine months. Two days before the celebration, Dr. Martha casually asked me and my colleague, who was also new, if we could plan something for the occasion. There were no detailed instructions, no do’s and don’ts. Just trust.
Honestly, we were nervous. This was the first time she had asked us to take responsibility for something. We quickly sought help from a few older colleagues. Together, we arranged a flag and pole, collected CDs of patriotic songs, brought sweets, and decorated the PRIA premises with tricolor ribbons and lights. We wanted everything to feel simple but meaningful.
On the morning of 15th August, the atmosphere at PRIA felt special. The flag fluttered in the breeze, patriotic songs played softly, and everyone gathered together. The celebration was not extravagant, but it was sincere and full of heart.
After the event, Dr. Martha smiled and said, “This is really a great event organised in such a short time.” Just one sentence, but it meant so much to me. It was appreciation, trust, and encouragement, all wrapped in those few words.
That’s how Dr. Martha is, never loud, never dramatic, but incredibly thoughtful. She pays attention to the little details, not because she seeks perfection, but because she believes the little things are what make people feel loved and valued.
From her, I’ve learned that kindness does not always come in grand gestures. Sometimes, it comes in the form of a homemade ladoos, a quiet question, “What would you prefer?” or a simple “Well done” at exactly the right moment.
The tradition of distributing homemade ladoos on Diwali still continues by Rajesh bhai.
